No matter how old a person is, he always has a hidden
child. A child who has fear to do something beyond his comfort zone. A child
who has imaginative world which is followed up by fear, meaning this child
holds some dreams with fear by his side. This child drags a person to the cloud
of questions- how? and what if? How this can be possible to get there? How this
can be his victory? Similarly, what if, despite taking risk, he doesn’t get
return? What if, he gets failed? What if, he doesn’t get shortlisted for the
job? What if, they reject him? What if, his expenses be greater than his
income? Not only him but also, we all are surrounded by these chunks of
questions and because of which overthinking is impended in our mind. This
process is not stopped here, overthinking further gives rise to major problem
like- cynicism. The unnecessary doubts in our head stop us to bear risk and
persuade us to be in safe box.
CYNICISM FACTS:
Sometimes we see the clouds from outside. Thankful to
those who share their opinion against our shortcomings. They play their
outstanding part for bothering us and contribute more strength to our doubts.
This results in making us feel worthless. We therefore, hide and avoid
challenges, we prefer to play safe.
Playing safely let you to lose opportunity and
surrender yourself with cynical remarks. Doubts and cynics drive you to a place
where you treat yourself at a low potential. It is because of cynicism some
people cover themselves with despondent, stating that they don’t want this aspiration
to take its shape. Rather than by ignoring what they want they should face the
unwanted barriers and reach up the climax. The world is full of opportunities
and those opportunities welcome us in every single time. We must be ones who are
willing to face hindrance, removing the block and getting to the desired
destination.
OVERCOMING CYNICISM:
You need to do certain implementation. At first, get the
negativity replace by positivity, to achieve big, think big. Secondly, set some
small target. Your target must be according to the intention. Besides, what
step you take must be free from doubts. Focus on the real facts, think and
analyze what would be the outcome by following a certain way. After analyze an
outcome, suggest an alternative for yourself if an outcome doesn’t fall in your
desired category. Laconically, be your own boss.
When the sarcastic people seek their way to reach you
by sarcasm, you need to eliminate them the way you eliminate stale food from
dining table.
Hence, cynicism and fear fall in different stages of
life. It has different frequency in everyone’s life but the fact is everyone endure
it once in lifetime. Therefore, face it and seek the treasure which is hidden
in the trials of life.
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